i'm sorry

Based on experience eh napakabigat na pasanin ang di pag-papatawad. Aninong hindi matakbuhan kapag inalagaan mona nang husto. Yayakap sa iyo na parang tuko.. [aba!ryhme pa ah1 sabi na at may kinabukasan akong maging writer]

Siryoso, lam mo bang you did a greater damage to yourself pag hindi ka nagpatawad?[huwaw!english un ah!] Failure to forgive is a devastating form of self –funishment.[English again,hehe]..lason yan na kakalat sa buo nating pagkatao na aapekto sa lahat ng factor ng buhay natin..asido na tutunaw sa mga mabubuti nating pag-uugali.. take note, masakit at mahapdi ang repercussions.. lalo’t nag-uugat na sa puso, mahirap ng palakulin..

Mahirap oo, especially when someone commits a terrible offense against you. Tapos alam mo ba yung feeling na parang may bubulong-bulong pa sa iyo para i-entice ka na gumanti..susunod-sunod sa iyo na parang alingawngaw…

Natutunan ko lang magpatawad nung matutunan ko kung ano nga ba ang “pagpapatawad’..share ko sa inyo itong nakasulat sa journal ko..

“Forgiveness is the willingness to give up your resentment toward someone who has wronged you, regardless of how serious or painful that wrong that might have been. In other words, you renounce any desire to get even. We can identify three elements to forgiveness: to give up resentment about the wrong; to give up resentment towards the wrongdoer; and to give up plans for retaliation. Forgiveness is more than just saying some words; it must come from the heart. Unforgiven, on the other hand, is a deliberate mindset to do opposite-to resent the wrong and the wrongdoer, and to seek revenge.

In Ephesians 4:31, Paul associates unforgiveness with bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, slander and malice.

Balansehin mo muna ang sitwasyon kasi mahirap magsisi sa huli..

Naku! mas mahirap ang regret..sinasabi ka sa iyo..

Wag ka naming basta babanat na…..

“It’s too late to apologize..it’s too laaaaaate”

Eto, siryoso na talaga.. May panyo ka ba jan? Alam niyo kasi, iisa lang ang sagot sa dilemma na yan. Ihain mo sa pananalig sa Diyos ang problema dahil wala na iba pang pwedeng umitindi sa iyo kundi siya. Isunbong mo sa kanya lahat-lahat. He can heal all kinds of wounds. He knows. He understands. Okey.. Somebody wronged you. Let God sort that out. He is just. In time, even the one who wronged you will stand before God in judgment. Your responsibility is simply to let go of all resentment and let God. God works in ways we can’t see. Hindi madaling magpatawad. Yan ang tanong mo hindi ba? Pero kahit hindi madali, matutulungan ka niya. Manalangin ka. Prayers can move mountains.

“If you forgive those who sins against you, your heavenly father will forgive you, but if you refuse to forgive others, your father will not forgive your sins.”

Matthew 6:14-15